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Thursday, December 20, 2012

Quotes & Articles





"Be the light that helps others see."  

“The camera is an instrument that teaches people how to see without a camera.” ― Dorothea Lange

"There's only two options: make progress or make excuses." 

FAQ: How to Shoot Backlit by Jasmine Star

Monday, November 19, 2012

Encouraging Words

"If you can dream it, you can do it."  -Walt Disney


"Even if you fall on your face, you're still moving forward."  -Victor Kiam


"Either you run the day or the day runs you."  -Jim Rohn


"One sees clearly only with the heart.  Anything essential is invisible to the eyes."

"The past is where you learned the lesson. The future s where you apply the lesson. Don't give up in the middle."

"If you ask me what I came into this life to do, I will tell you: I came to live out loud."  -Emile Zola


"Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom."  -Theodore Rubin

"Don't expect everyone to understand your journey, especially if they've never had to walk your path."

"Praying is talking to 'God' Meditating is listening."  -Bruce A. Mitchell

"Comparison is the thief of joy."  - Theodore Roosevelt

Friday, November 16, 2012

Encouraging Words

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” ― Mother Teresa

Monday, November 5, 2012

Encouraging Words

"The key to gaining sovereignty over your work is to be like a performer. Understand the craft of creating reactions. Once you do so, you own your images. You become a creator. When you know what your pictures say and how people will react, you can take acceptance and rejection in the proper context. You can push boundaries and discover new ground. When you understand others, you can understand yourself."  - Spencer Lum

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Boundaries

BOUNDARY:  something that indicates bounds  or limits; a limiting or bounding line.


Boundaries For Ourselves

"Boundaries.  Many of us have a hard time setting/upholding them.  Why?  We believe it is "unkind" behavior.  We want others to like/love us.  We think that by relaxing our boundaries, it (shows or gives) more respect to people we value.  However, remember that in order to be respected back in the specific/appropriate way related to a relationship, we "must" create and uphold boundaries.  If not, others can abuse them.  People will cross boundaries and test our limits...simply because we "allow" it.  Find a balance, and boundary lines that are comfortable and acceptable to you.  What is okay?  What is not okay?  Where is the line crossed?  Let others know.  Explain each boundary and the consequence or action that will result if it is crossed so that others are "aware" and "clear" about it.  If people are not clear about your particular acceptable boundaries, and you don't ever enforce them, they will not "know" exactly...what they can and what they cannot do.  Boundaries are not unkind.  They are simply normal and expected personal lines of respect.  Enforcing them shows you respect yourself and others too." -SP



Why do we have boundaries?
To keep us safe and to know what our limits are.

I totally need to sit down and create some concrete boundaries for myself and how people are allowed to treat me.  My kids have totally tested my limits.  I don't totally blame them for their actions though because #1- they are little kids and #2- I haven't sat down and explained in detail what my boundaries are.  Same thing goes for my friends.  Sometimes I start feeling like I cave in to the wants and needs of others when I'm already feeling overwhelmed or stressed out.  I need to learn to say when needed, "No, _______ doesn't work for me today." I'm still learning to respect myself and the demands of my time as a wife and mother.  It's important to have some down time every now and then.

What boundaries have you set for yourself?  
What works well for you?  Please share.

To me, it is very wise for parents to set boundaries for their children.
My husband and I had two boys when we bought our house just over 3 years ago.  
Our boys were known to be wanderers, especially our younger son.
We decided to hire a guy to fence in our backyard. 
Since the fence has been up, our kids know what their boundaries are when they go in the backyard.
It is comforting to know that the fence helps to remind the kids of their boundaries.  
But what happens when our kids get older? 
We will have to sit down and figure out what boundaries are fair for them.

What boundaries have you set for yourself and for your family?
Please share.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Words of Wisdom - Artist's Way Edition

The Artist's Way - A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity 
by Julia Cameron

This book is for artists who feel like their creativity is blocked.
Julia takes artists through a rigorous 12 week course.
A course that requires sacrifices... like
 waking up early to record 3 handwritten pages of stream of conciousness thoughts, to exercise, to go to bed at a decent hour, to take yourself on Artist Dates, to thinking way back about your childhood and how certain people have influenced you and your sense of yourself.
By the completion of the course, artists should feel that they have unblocked their creativity.   

Here is a list of the topics that are discussed in those 12 weeks.

Recovering a Sense of:

- Safety
- Identity
- Power
- Integrity
- Possibility
- Abundance
- Connection
- Strength
- Compassion
- Self Protection
- Autonomy
- Faith

"The capacity for delight is in the gift of paying attention."  - Julia Cameron

taken in the Walmart parking lot of Ithaca, New York


I enjoyed reading this book.  It was filled with powerful thoughts that really made me stop and think about my life and the thoughts that I have.  I feel that this book has made me realize that a more creative life is within my grasp.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Words of Wisdom

“God is eagerly waiting for the chance to answer your prayers and fulfill your dreams, just as he always has. But he can't if you don't pray, and he can't if you don't dream. In short, he can't if you don't believe.” 
― Jeffrey R. Holland

"Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination." 

"There is nothing more attractive than confidence.  
Once you see your own beauty, so will everyone else."


Thanks again for the fabulous picture, Amy!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Advice to My K Girl

 HUG Harder
LAUGH Louder
SMILE Bigger
LOVE Longer

"You don't need a REASON for doing EVERYTHING in life.
Do it because you WANT to.  
Because it's FUN.  
Because it makes you HAPPY."

"To be beautiful means to be yourself.
You don't need to be accepted by others.
You just need to accept yourself."

"Don't ask what the world needs.
Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it.
Because what the world needs is people that have come alive."
- Howard Thurman

"Accept everything about yourself.  I mean everything.
You are you and that is the beginning and the end.
No apologies.  No regrets."
- Henry Kissinger

 "Be so good that they can't ignore you."  ~ Steve Martin

 A special thanks to my sweet 21 month old girl, K for being such a good little model for me.  This was a much harder photo shoot than I anticipated.  I didn't have an assistant or anything.  I went to the high school to a sidewalk and stairwell area.  Taking K's blanket was a smart thing to do.  Her "blankie" is her comfort item.  I was attempting to capture her true personality and I am quite happy with the results.

Friday, March 16, 2012

Words of Wisdom

“Saying a camera takes nice pictures is like saying a guitar plays nice melodies.”  ~ Darren Rowse

 "Take pride in how far you have come, and have faith in how far you can go."

"The more anger in your past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present."

Sunset in upstate New York - Feb. 2012

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Words of Wisdom

“Never stop striving for the best that is within you. Never stop hoping for all of the righteous desires of your heart. But don’t close your eyes to the simple and elegant beauties of each day’s ordinary moments that make up a rich, well-lived life.”  -President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Cache Valley (taken through a fence)   - Oct. 2011 

(As a photographer, I feel that I'm quite good at finding beauty in even the simple things.  
When I find/see something that is interesting, unusual, or beautiful, I try to stop and point out to my family.
And if my family isn't with me, I try to stop and take a picture so I can show them what I saw. )

“The happiest people I know are not those who find their ‘golden ticket’; they are those who, while in pursuit of worthy goals, discover and treasure the beauty and sweetness of the everyday moments. They are the ones who, thread by daily thread, weave a tapestry of gratitude and wonder throughout their lives. These are they who are truly happy.”  -President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"On average, children laugh 400 times a day, while adults laugh about 15 times.  Why the gap? Did we lose something? Have we forgotten the way we used to be? Why is it that children seem to cope with life’s oddities better than adults? Perhaps it’s because they do not fully understand. But I think it’s simpler than that—they laugh. As we grow older, we get far too serious. Watch children play. They don’t need expensive toys to entertain them. Everything is fun. They are spontaneous. Only when we become adults do we start to get boring. Do we need to cultivate a different attitude? Humor is in the way we see things, the way we think. It’s an attitude, not an event. Perhaps the key lies in becoming more childlike."  ~ Gary K. Palmer


"When a woman has a kingdom heart, she has an active understanding of what matters most to the heart of God. She lives in the balance of passion and contentment. She learns to love well, give without regard to self, and forgive without hesitation. The woman with a kingdom heart may have a duffel bag full of possessions or enough treasures to fill a mansion, but she has learned to hold them with an open hand. Hold everything with open hands. I don't think we are ever allowed to grab hold of anything or anyone as though they matter more than the kingdom of heaven. When you hold relationships with open hands, then people come in and out of your life as gifts of grace to be cherished and enjoyed, not objects to be owned and manipulated. And then when you hold your dreams with open hands, you get to watch God resurrect what seemed dead and multiply what seemed small."- from the book "A Beautiful Offering"

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Words of Wisdom


“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.” ~ Steve Jobs




Friday, August 19, 2011

Words of Wisdom

"The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak."  --Hans Hofmann

"What is done cannot be undone, but what is lost can sometimes be found."

“There is a place deep in your soul where a little seed rests.  This seed is your amazing potential.  Each time you push yourself, each time you breathe a true deep breath, each time you reach your hands to the stars, you nourish that little seed and feed your soul.” - Karen Tye 

“The day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom.”  - Anais Nin
 
“We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?” – Marianne Williamson

"There is more to life than increasing its speed."  Mohandas K. Gandhi

 -Ira Glass

Friday, May 13, 2011

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Words of Wisdom

"Sorrow looks back. Worry looks around. Faith looks up."

"One who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger."

"Bad taste is simply telling the truth before it should be said."

"No one should negotiate their dreams. Dreams must be free to fly high. No government, no legislature, has a right to limit your dreams. You should never agree to surrender your dreams".
-Jesse Jackson
  
"Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead."  ~ Louisa May Alcott 

"To achieve your goals and remain successful, you must be willing to step over the line and fully commit to change."  ~Tosca Reno 

"No one does everything perfectly all the time, although it may sometimes appear that others do when you're watching them from the outside.  Success does not come from perfection; it comes from consistently moving in the right direction, which eventually brings you where you want to be, and that is something you really don't need to fear."   ~Tosca Reno

"You can do anything, but not everything."  ~David Allen

"If I were to be the heroine in my own story, what are the kinds of obstacles that I would choose to overcome?  Be brave."  ~Melody Ross

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Words of Wisdom - The {21} Challenge Edition

"Enjoy the process."

"The journey of a thousand miles
begins with a single step."
~ Lao-Tzu

"Don't let the fear of failure discourage you. 
You are a power for good. 
You will make the world a better place." 
~ Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"We may be very busy, we may be very efficient,
but we will also be truly effective
only when we begin with the end in mind." 
~  Stephen R. Covey

The man who has no imagination has no wings."  ~ Mohammad Ali

"Love the moment and the energy
of that moment will spread beyond all boundaries." 
~Cortta Kent

"Action
is the foundational
key to all success."
~ Pablo Picasso

"Develop success from failures.
Discouragement and failure are two
of the surest stepping stones to success."
~ Dale Carnegie

"To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong."
~Joseph Chilton Pearce

"Flaming enthusiasm is the quality
that most frequently makes for success."
~Dale Carnegie

"Live out of your imagination not your history."
~ Stephen R. Covey

"In order to succeed your desire for success
should be greater than your fear of failure."
~ Bill Cosby

" Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman,
before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish into air."
~ John Quincy Adams

"Success is dependent on effort."
~Sophocles
"Do not dwell in the past,
do not dream of the future,
 concentrate the mind on the present."
~ Buddha

"It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan."
~Eleanor Roosevelt

" The greatest discovery of my generation is that
a human being can alter his life by
altering his attitudes of mind." 
~ William James

"Strong reasons make strong actions."
~ Shakespeare

'Energy and persistence conquer all things."
~ Benjamin Franklin

"One must not lose desires. 
They are mighty stimulants to creativeness,
to love and to long life."
~ Alexander A. Bogomoletz

"If you think you can win you can win.
Faith is necessary to victory."
~ William Hazlill

"If you believe in yourself
and have dedication and pride and never quit,
 you'll be a winner.
  The price of victory is high but so are the rewards." 
~ Paul Bryant

Words of Wisdom

"I can do hard things."

"Change is good."

"I've got the power."

"When your choices are in alignment with your vision, your values, and your soul’s purpose, they contribute to your power.
The more that you bring your choices into alignment with your values and your soul, the more power you will have." -- Hiro Boga
 
“Doubt is a signal of the creative process. It is a signal that you are doing something right–not that you are doing something wrong or crazy or stupid. The sickening chasm of fear that doubt triggers to yawn… is not a huge abyss into which you are going to tumble, spiraling downward like you are falling through the circles of hell. No, doubt is most often a signal you are doing something and doing it right.”

-Julia Cameron

"Life is hard, but life is simple. Get on the path and never, ever give up. You never give up. You just keep on going. You don't quit, and you will make it. There is only one way to happiness and fullfillment. Jesus Christ is the Way. Every other way, any other way, whatever other way is foolishness."

- Elder Lawrence E. Corbridge

Monday, March 7, 2011

Words of Wisdom - Feminine Wisdom Edition

I Will Not Die an Unlived Life

I will not die an unlived life, 
I will not live in fear
of falling or catching fire.
I choose to inhabit my days, 
to allow my living to open me,
to make me less afraid, more accessible;
To loosen my heart
until it becomes a wing,
a torch, a promise.
I choose to risk my significance, 
to live so that which came to me as seed
goes to the next as blossom,
and that which came to me as blossom, 
Goes on as fruit.

-Dawna Markova, I Will Not Die an Unlived Life 


"The moment a woman comes home to herself, the moment she knows she has become a person of influence, an artist of her life, a sculptor of her universe, a person with rights and responsibilities who is respected and recognized, the resurrection of the world begins."  ~ Sister Chittister

"Begin doing what you want to do now.  We are not living in eternity.  We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand - and melting like a snowflake."  ~ Marie Beynon Ray

"As long as we recognize the power within us, we will continue to have choices, and we will continue to lead.  The source of that power can be the other people who guide us.  It can come from the knowledge that courageous women throughout history paved the way for us.  It can come from our roots an our families, which give us the strength.  And it must come from within ourselves - from our faith, our accomplishments and our values.  Know your power.  When you do, others will know your power too."  
~ Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the House, USA  

"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."  ~Eleanor Roosevelt

"Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong.  At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to wither of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place you should live."  ~ Pema Chodron

"What do friendships mean for women?  A landmark UCLA study suggests friendship between women help us manage stress.  They soother inner ups and downs, fill emotional gaps, and help us navigate difficult times.... and they do even more. 

The scientists have found that time with our friends can remedy the kind of stress many of us experience on a daily basis.  This study suggests that women respond to stress with a cascade of brain chemicals that cause us to make and maintain friendships with other women.  It's a stunning find that has turned five decades of stress research upside down - most of it on men and their fight or flight reaction to stress.  So reach out to your women friends!"  (Contact us at info@thewisdomconnection.com for a link to the full study.) 

"There is a goodness, a Wisdom that arises, sometimes fitfully, sometimes gently, sometimes awkwardly, sometimes fiercely, but it will arise to save us if we let it, and it arises from within us, like the force that drives green shoots to break the winter ground, it will arise and drive us into a great blossoming into the aliveness of it all, into that part of ourselves that can never be defiled, defeated, or destroyed, but that comes back to life, time and time again, that lives - always - that does not die."  ~ China Galland, The Bond Between Women: A Journey to Fierce Compassion.

"It is amazing how fast doors open to us 
when we dare to take control."
~ Catherine Ponder

"I learned that inspiration does not always come like a bolt, nor is it kinetic, energetic, striving, but it comes into us slowly and quietly and all the time."  
~ Brenda Ueland

"In this fast changing world, the pathways to success and fulfillment will rely on web-based networking, non-linear thinking, relationship-based approaches, and intuitive knowing - all fundamental parts of feminine wisdom.  Imagine what might be possible when our wise feminine leadership is unleashed."  
~ Karen Buckley and Fay Freed

"There cannot be too many glorious women."  ~ Marianne Williams

"Crucial to finding the way is this: there is no beginning or end.  
You must make your own map."  ~ Joy Harj

"Our planet is in desperate need of women who love themselves.  Women who use their time, energy, and resources to design life-affirming solutions for the challenges confronting humankind.  Women who give birth to relationships of equality, strategies of peace, institutions of justice, and households of compassion."  
~ Patricia Lynn Reilly

"When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength 
in the service of my vision, 
then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid." 
~ Audre Lorde

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Words of Wisdom

"Powerful candids are by definition revealing. They give us hints about inner workings but leave room for imagination about who the subject is and how they are motivated."
-Robert McNeely, White House Photographer

"The only way to get through to the place of confidence is to walk through the curtain." - MeRa Koh

"If you really want to do something, you will find a way.  If you don't you'll find an excuse."

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Words of Wisdom

“For most photographers, placing someone in front of something whether an icon or simply some exterior, unconsidered location is their idea of a portrait etc. This is not mine. The purpose of this picture, and many other of my images, is to know how to fit people into their environment, rather than haphazardly placing them in front of it. Having the figures within the space rather than in front of it, makes all the difference."  - Mr. Smith
  
Goals are the first step to business success. Jim Rohn believes that "If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you. Whatever good things we build end up building us."

 - Albert Einstein

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Live, Laugh....

"Live.  Laugh.  PHoToGRAPH." -The Larson Lingo